"maybe there’s a universe where I’m the right person for you. where I adore every nice thing you did for me without starting to resent you. a universe where you actually end up with someone who appreciates you. where no one becomes a doormat. where both of us can shed our baggage and curiosity and issues. a universe where we’re happy — without wondering if that happiness is some messed-up Jenga game ready to topple at the slightest quiver. a universe where we’re comfortable and sure, and we have cats.”
“I’m a naturally pretty shy person, which I’m cool with now. I used to think it was this affliction I had to overcome.”
i like that we say “oh, man” to express disappointment
because men are disappointing
I don’t know about a motto to sum up entirely who I am, but one thing I’ve always lived by, and people try and convince me out of it, and I just don’t believe in it is, I’ve never been a dater. I’ve never gone on true dates before. Really, with anyone. I’ve had a few boyfriends before but I’ve never truly just gone on random dates. When people ask why, I’ve always said I feel like dates are like interviews, and I refuse to be romantically employed.